Many of the same techniques that work for normal flirting work well in online flirting. After all, most relationships begin with some sort of flirting. In fact, online flirting works very well at developing your flirting skills, because most men lack confidence to flirt at all. There are many more men on online dating sites than women. An attractive women gets a lot of emails from a lot of men. She has to sort out the real men from the wimps.
One great way of separating yourself from most men is to take a chance and learn to flirt and tease well in a very funny way. Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being over the top. If you go too far, she will label you "sleazy" If you don't go far enough, she will label you "wimpy". So how do you achieve that point half way between sleazy and wimpy? When online flirting you do not have the advantage of using using your eye contact or your body language. All you have is a computer an internet connection and membership in an online dating site. In some ways that is an advantage to be online as you can try new methods without a face to face chance of rejection.
The biggest aspect of online flirting is to have a lot of fun! Be as much light-hearted, funny and entertaining and you can be. If you make her laugh she will want to talk to you again and again. Make her eager to talk to you again. Flirting is being very playful. When flirting, you need to transmit that you are very confident. Successful flirts have a positive emotional outlook on life.
You need to transmit the "I feel good inside" factor and the women will pick this up and feel good inside too. An optimistic attitude attracts females like honey attracts flies. Using the approach of cocky and funny works wonders with women. Make some fun of her but in a very funny way. This creates attraction with most women because most men are too scared to be cocky.
Confident men are happy in their skin and non needy around women. They can take a chance that the women could not see the funny side and just move on. For example, lets say she compliments you on your photo. You can now tease her about wanting a relationship and moving too fast. This is funny as most women use the same logic with men and they say that men are coming on too fast. So switch it around and she will laugh.
Compliment her when you feel she deserves a good compliment but not just to please her like a wimpy, needy man. She will want to spend more time with you if you reward her and if she pays you a compliment say "thank you". Do not be self depreciating. Most men talk to much and do not really listen to what she says and ask appropriate questions.
It is good to get her to open up and talk about herself. It is good to reveal something more intimate about yourself so she feels safe to do this in turn. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her. This works wonders! Being rude in anyway just shows that you have a lack of control of your emotions.
Flirting does not include being overtly sexually explicit nor taking offence or getting angry if the woman isn't responding to you well. If she isn't interested, take the hint and move on to the next prospect. If you get a lot of rejections, you should probably consider a different approach that incorporates more fun and being a little more cocky and in your masculinity. After you chat online it is great to send an email. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful flirting.
Take your time in building up attraction. Teasing and anticipation are great to build up the energy and vibs. Don't try to go too fast.
Online Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship. Above all, have fun.
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